There's this guy I really want to talk to and get to know but I'm scared he's going to reject me because of my number. I had sex for the first time over the summer and when I got back for fall semester I was unhappy and lonely and made bad choices. I slept with three guys here, two I knew and one I just met. It didn't happen back to back but one guy once a month. I felt terrible and cut myself off. I haven't had sex or talked to guys in months because I felt ashamed.
It's a big school but my ethnic group is small compared to the entire student population and someone knows someone you know (I hope that makes sense). I just found out two of the guys know each other. I really want to talk to this guy I'm interested in but I'm scared he's going to reject me. I would understand why of course but should I go for it anyway?
Most Helpful Guy
Does the guy your interested in know the people you slept with? As in, are they his friends? If not it shouldn't be too bad.1
Most Helpful Girl
So what? Who the fuck cares?
I think you should go for it anyway.0