My ex and I have been separated for 3 months. I didn't feel like he cared enough about me and he had a lot of problems on his own, so we decided to break up. The first month was like living hell for me, but I managed to get over him after all so it was OK in the end. The thing is... the last couple of weeks he's been texting me a lot, calling me pet names, talking about old times, flirting and asking me out, so I guess he may want us to get back together. I felt that I still love him, so finally, I agreed to go have a drink with him and try again if he asks me to. But the thing is... when we did go out I didn't feel anything. Like... after hurting so bad for so long because of him, I feel kind of numb. Is it something that goes away with time? I mean... after getting back with an ex after so long, do feelings eventually change to the way they were before the break-up, or the fact that I feel like this now, means that I don't love him anymore?
Do you feel differently about your ex, after getting back together, than you felt about them before the break-up?
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