Why am I always a second option to guys?

Every time I talk to a guy he will stop talking to me or not talk to me as much because he finds another girl or he will just randomly talk to me and then ignore me. Or will only talk to me when he's bored or something. Is there something wrong with me? How can I not be a second option?


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What Guys Said 2

  • Maybe your views and values in life conflicts with his. Some guys don't want to get into a relationship where you see your own views or values more importantly than his and doesn't want to go through all that drama.

  • Not sure with out a picture, maybe you don't seem as friendly

    • But I am friendly/nice they tell me that too and they also tell me I look "pretty and stuff"

    • Something you do or say doesn't hold their interest for long it seems

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