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You can say split, its 2016 yada yada yada
But the reality is guys usually ask and guys usually pay and girls usually expect it even if they are sweet and offer to pay.
I guess at the end it really just adds to a smooth night, bickering or even thinking about who pays just breaks a little bit of the flow.
Of course if money is an issue then the flow is already broken a little because he's not at ease.
Choose your guy accordingly if paying (in essence a smooth night) is important to you.2