I'm 21, he's 25. We matched on tinder like 2 months ago, and have been talking since (through snapchat mostly). He works 2 jobs and I'm in school, so we were both very busy... This past week he asked me out twice but I was busy, and finally we agreed that Monday works for both of us. He lives like 50 miles away, but agreed to take me out to dinner at a restaurant where I live. Soo it's not like we could go back to his place afterwards if he had sex on the brain (& I live with my parents). It'll be a date, and no banging immediately after lol. I'm really hoping he's the real deal... I've had so many guys who are just in it for sex, and it's really kinda did a number on how I view guys and love in general... But I'm really hopeful this time... Is that stupid? Or could he be down for something real?
Is it naive of me to believe this guy wants more than just to hook up?
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Impossible to say at this point what he wants. You have to learn to live in the present. Enjoy the moment. You've got a date with a guy you like. Don't listen to other voices. He seems respectful enough and seems keen to actually hang out and get to know you which is always a plus.1
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