I'm having a really hard time meeting guys, like exceptionally hard time. I have a good head on my shoulders, a good job, I'm not super attractive but I am working on it.
I try to put extra effort into my appearance before I go anywhere. Today I went grocery shopping with my mom, and I saw this really cute guy. He looked at me and I looked at him. I think he almost approached me, but my mom started talking to me and I saw him turn the other way :(
How can I signal a guy that I want him to approach me? I'm really shy and any time I try to approach a guy it seems he's either married or I found out he has a girlfriend and then I end up feeling foolish. I don't want a guy who's taken, I want to meet a guy for myself.
How do guys like getting approached? I try to always smile and be aware of my surroundings. If I see a guy I will flash a smile. But I've never been approached :(
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Eye contact. It's extremely rare for me to come by this, it's only happened to me twice. But a sure fire way for me to go approach a girl is to give me prolonged eye contact and smile. She can look away for a moment and look once more and if I catch ourselves looking at each other one more time, I'm going up to her. Another good one if you're walking my direction is to give me eye contact, smile, and wave. If I look back and she does too, I'm going for it. But those were two incidents where I said okay I'm doing this. But I only approach girls if this happens, or if we happen to have a conversation over circumstance.1