Most Helpful Guy
Of course it is. Would you like it if your boyfriend is telling a girl how much he want to go down on her, let her suck him off, and fuck her brains out?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes. The reason why sex is cheating is the same reason why sexting is cheating. Whether you think so or not, you're giving away a part of yourself that you've committed to share with this guy only. If you really want to change your commitment, talk about it openly with your boyfriend and see what you can work out. Just keep in mind that if the price of sexual freedom is your boyfriend's feelings, then its probably not the right thing for the relationship. Be as open and honest as you can with everyone involved.1