As in if i like the girl but don't want to raise another guys child?
Most Helpful Girl
Haha don't date her then? the child's definitely not going anywhere and for at least 16 years too and as a single mom I'm sure she's not dating just to date anymore she might be looking for something stable so tell her all you want is a casual relationship that way she knows you don't want to get too involved and you can still get what you want IF she wants that too.0
Most Helpful Guy
i say: take the chance, hell, you might find yourself becoming attached to the kid.0