I'm honestly trying to wrap my head around this. It just seems like whenever something bad happens in my boyfriend's life he pushes me away compeletly. I dont understand it because when something goes wrong in my life he's the first person I want to talk to about it or seek comfort with. I'm just so done. UGH.
Most Helpful Guy
We consider ourself strong, and try to keep things to ourselves.
When you have trouble he asks and you share, he does not worries and try to fix it, while we think that if we share our bigger mess with you then you will be worried and
Worrying about you that you are worried, is one more thing we need to worry about..
And when you will have period next time, you will be angry and you will have one more thing to whine about while you are emotionally heightened during periods..
And men can stand whining thus they try to shorten that list0
Most Helpful Girl
I do the same thing. I just don't like talking about my problems. I don't want to share my burden with other people.0