Right there's this guy in my class from university, that I really fancy from the beginning and I have been talking to him a few times, i added him on FB and he is exactly my type and very nice. The problem is every time I see him walking past me, sitting next to me or looking at me I get extremely nervous and anxious about it and sometimes my hands are even shaking. I asked my friend to add him on FB and to message him and when he was replaying to her i got really jealous and felt really sad because he was flirting with her even though I know she doesn't like him and was only doing him a favour... Then out of nowhere, i didn't see him for long time but I had a terrible nightmare about him hugging and kissing my friend and me sitting at the back and watching them and I felt really really hurt, I was dying to wake up and end this nightmare and when I woke up I felt pain... took a couple of hours to get over it and distract myself with other stuff... Then, recently I saw that he liked one girl's photos from my class and again i felt the same anxiety and sadness... I got angry because he never liked my photos and he is just being friendly towards me... I am feeling so ridiculous because I have a crush on someone, who clearly wants to be just friends and because I dont undderstand how can such an attraction provoke such strong feelings out of me, when I dont even know the guy? I dont understand am I just attracted to him or there is more to it, like feelings? I am really afraid that he might try to get with some other girls from my class and it will hurt me, how do i get over it without feeling any pain?
Do I have feelings for him or just an attraction?
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