I have been friend zoned by a girl and she keeps coming back to me. We used work together but she has now left. We have met up twice and text frequently. From our meet ups I do think there is something there. Last time she hinted to go to cinema but this week she couldn't make it and said maybe next week we will. Am temped to suggest some drinks this week but maybe I shouldn't make myself so available. What would you do?
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Listen closely. If you don't accept any of this, it's okay. Do it totally or don't do it all. Dont do it partially. So here are the rules-
1) Don't pay for her. If it's not a date.. you are NOT supposed to pay for her. If she wants to be just friends.. act like just a friend. Split it.
2) If she starts telling you about other guys.. call her on it. Ask her.. with a curious voice.. "why are you telling me all this?" . If she keeps defending, ask her " Is he my friend?" . She'll say "no". Then say "Then I don't care about him. Change the topic."
3) If she starts spilling out problems, tell her that I'd listen if you want a solution. If you want to let it out.. you are talking to the wrong person. I am bad at that.
4) Keep the topic on her. Don't let her get bored.
You might be friendzoned.. but there's always a way out.0