I know it seems really shallow but I'm a 20 year old female and I am also 5'11 just about 6 feet tall. I've been tall all my life and I have always wanted to date some one taller than me but for some reason I always get into relationships with guys shorter than me. Does this look bad? I shouldn't care but I do, I want cute wedding pictures you know? How do I stop being shallow? He's a great guy, not the hottest guy, but definitely the smartest nicest guy I have been with in awhile.
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To stop being shallow- through out your expectations
For the wedding pictures- Take pictures that have a focal point of head/torso while he stands on a stool or something
There's always ways to counter a disagreement, but what is there to disagree on. You know the guy is smart / charming / etc.. I'm missing the point of the problem. Who says that a 6'2 guy will be any better-looking in your wedding pictures than a 4'11 guy? There isn't anything that says that in literature to myself. Granted, it's a stereotype that the woman should be shorter than her significant other, but I hate stereotypes, don't you?
Just ignore your expectations and throw them out the window.