I currently am in a LDR with my boyfriend in the army. He is very sweet and we text every day and are falling deeply for each other. I swore to him I'd never cheat on him.
Recently, I got in touch with a guy I've met 2 years ago in the Air force. I started talking to him, complimenting him and subtly flirted with him. He then said "Am I ever going to see you?" and things started getting deeper from there.
Is this cheating?
- Yes.Vote A
- No.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Would you tell your boyfriend about the flirting? Would you openly show him the conversations that has flirting in them? I don't think so.. Thats when you know if its cheating or not.. Cheating doesn't only mean physical contact with someone who isn't your SO.. Its when you hide something from your SO coz u know things won't go well if u tell them...
I'm in a LDR too, look, even if u don't see you are wrong now.. If things get deep with anyone else, then trust me, you will get yourself a confused heart.. Since you are in a LDR and there's no Physical contact, only conversations, then if those conversations start getting deep with someone else u would slowly start falling for him.. And then BOOM, you put yourself, in a total mess.. If you really love your boyfriend you have 1 option.. Don't continue talking with that guy about deep/personal stuff, the more personal u get the more you will think about that guy instead of your boyfriend, you don't wanna be there trust me!
I hope I helped 😊1