Help! should I reconnect with a guy I cut off?

I want to reconnect with an old flame I cut off. I cut him off to avoid possible heartache. I just felt like things were going in that direction. My question is: what should I say when I reach out to him? I don't have his number anymore so I plan to reach out via social media. Should I start off with "hey you crossed my mind the other day." Or should I address the reason why I cut him off. I just need help putting my words together.


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What Guys Said 1

  • I would do the hey you crossed my mind the other day first and see if you get a response. Then if he replies or asks why then explain. You could explain first, but that may or may not get a response


What Girls Said 1

  • "Hey you crossed my mind..." Make it more casual.