This girl was a friend, then we became friends with benefits and after she said she doesn't want a relationship at that time we went back to friends but I'd completely fallen for her. There were lots of possible reasons why it ended but I think the main reason was I was too nice and too weak. She did however say that she likes me and the time might be right in the future. Her ex boyfriend came back into town and I believe she started speaking to him again.
Over the past few weeks she has gotten a bit closer to me, she claimed she misses me a lot one evening and started talking to me a lot more. We went out for my Birthday and she was asking me to get a Birthday kiss from another girl, which was a blow! I didn't because I was out to have fun with my friends. She stayed at mine in my bed and we cuddled up in our underwear and held hands but didn't have sex. I am much more confident and comfortable around her now but I feel that she may only see me as a friend now which hurts!
What do you guys think, would you share a single bed cuddled up to just a friend? There could have been many reasons she didn't want to have sex because I didn't want to really (drunk at 4am with my parents in the next room with a friend my parents have never met). But do you think it's worth making myself less available and maybe start flirting with her? I don't know if the attraction is completely gone.
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i have shared a bed with a single female friend. it was, and it is what it sort of sounds like your situation is about, entirely about non-threatening physical intimacy. non-threatening in the sense that you know the person won't push for anything more, like no unwanted advances; however you get the intimacy of being close to another person. a lot of people, esp women, can really desire that non-threatening platonic relationship with a male that seems to sort of go a step towards romance without any actual romance1