me stories that have to do with her being hit on it flirted with, why does she do this? She's a pretty girl and attractive but by no means like a model, she makes it seem like everyone flirts with her though? This seems immature and even more so as she is 29 and I'm 25.
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I fear it's because we have been so mislead about what flirting is. Oh, someone held the door for you? Totally flirting. What? A guy sneezed in your presence? Totally wanting you to talk to him. Say what? The guy said he had something in his eye? He was winking at me because he thinks I'm too hot to handle.
Sounds ridiculous. People confuse friendliness and politeness with flirting. We need to learn the difference.