Is it normal for a guy to constantly look at pictures of other women naked (not to masterbate but just 'cause) while in a serious relationship?

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He tries to hide it from me. It's not actually a self-esteem booster :/

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  • Yes.

    He's a man, and as long as he has a heartbeat, he's going to be attracted to WOMEN (and that doesn't mean JUST YOU). He'll want to look at other women and fantasize about them.

    BUT, this doesn't mean he doesn't love you, or that he's going to ACT on any of that stuff. He's probably not going to talk to those girls or make any effort to contact them or any of that. He just needs a part of his brain stimulated, and only NEW and DIFFERENT women can do that. It wouldn't matter if you were a 10/10, he'd still have a desire to look at other women, because they are DIFFERENT and NEW.

    This is evolutionary behavior that men have developed through Natural Selection, as a man "spreading his seed" makes for the most diverse genetic makeup, which means the species is more likely to survive diseases and mutations. Women have traits and characteristics that also strengthen the species, such as: a desire for a relationship, the nesting instinct, and being protective of her children. Men's desire for variation in women is no less natural, and no less ingrained on his psyche, then women's instincts are.

    But you shouldn't take them personally, because they have nothing to do with you. If he was dating some other girl, he'd still have these desires, and it wouldn't matter if she was hotter than you or uglier than you. He'd still desire OTHER, DIFFERENT women.

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  • Seems weird to me... why look at them if he's not having a wank? I don't get it...

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What Guys Said 10

  • I, personally, would never in my life do that, not even when I'm out of a relationship, I find it discrimination against women, girls are humans not toys... personally, I think he is an ass for doing something like that to you, and if he is hiding it, that makes it even worse. You really don't deserve a guy like that, nobody does.

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    • Do guys with this opinion actually exist though?

  • I was married for 22 years and only had eyes for my wife...

    I think it is disrespectful doing this while being committed to another in a relationship

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  • Girls he knows? That's kinda weird otherwise if it's random girls then no its pretty normal.

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  • Yes,
    Doesn't mean he wants to cheat on you or anything. Say you love the Mona Lisa. Would you ignore all the work of Salvador Dali?

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  • No. To look at *some* porn isn't weird but all the time? No.

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What Girls Said 3

  • like strangers from porn or google images, sure

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  • No...

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  • no, that's cheating

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