so i'm working on getting back together with my ex girlfriend, i've known her almost 2 years. i'm israeli and she is not, but her living in israel for a few years made her know the culture a little bit so she knows we tend to stick together culturally...
so we're texting and she asks me "would you ever marry a non-israeli girl?", right away i said NO. thats my honest answer. but right when i said no, i realized that i fucked up so i tried recovering it by saying "well you never know" blah blah blah
was she actually basically asking "WOULD YOU EVER MARRY ME?". this thought freaks me out because we're only 22, we're practically kids, the thought has never even crossed my mind about marrying the person i'm dating... at least enough to ask them.
Most Helpful Girl
If you never intend to marry outside of your culture you should be honest about that. There's no right or wrong but if she's thinking marriage and you aren't there's no point in wasting either of your time. Let her go to find someone more compatible with her. You are free to date someone less serous about long term.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
It makes no sense to date without marriage in mind? If you would never marry a non Israili you are wasting both of your times and feelings. So poop or get off the pot.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE