READ ALL IF YOUR GONNA ANSWER PLEASE. so im 16. I live in california and the guy lives in Canada. He says he's 17 looks and acts older though. I followed him on instagram and I put my snapchat in my bio and he added me so we have been talking on there. He says how beatiful I am and whenever Im down he's always there for me he's super nice. He asked me out once and I declined because I didn't really want a long distance relationship. But he was sad and the next day asked me out again and I said yes. he's soo nice and tells me he likes me and how amazing and beatiful I am. But the other day he was saying how he wishes he could kiss me and cuddle me. And I was like "yeah sucks we can never see each other" And he's like I can probably come visit you In May or June but me and him haven't been talking that long and he doesn't post to much on his instagram so it doesn't give me much info about him. And he has a lottttttt of snapchat points so he probably talks to a lot of girls or something. But I got busy and stopped answering and he litterally spammed me with texts asking if we could talk and stuff and saying im amazing and stuff. I also told him how I was hesitant about meeting up with people I dont really know I said for all I know you could be a cereal killer or something. And he said something like "I know but im not. Im just a nice guy who wants cuddles" But should I? if I did id probably meet up in a public place with him. But like what if we wanna go in private and do stuff? like cuddle.
Most Helpful Guy
Get the guy to show his Canada-land passport on Skype or send a photo on Snapchat. Say it's nothing personal but you want to know he's not a 50 year old truck driver with a headless teen fetish.
Oh, and your use of 'cuddle' in place of 'fuck' didn't escape my notice.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Hell no. Haven't you seen 'To Catch a Predator'? There are plenty of "cute 17 year old guys from Canda" who show up with their beer belly and gray hair. -_-
I understand that you are young and hopeful for romance but do not put yourself in a situation that's going to get you chained up in someone's sex dungeon with a gag ball in your mouth. You don't know this guy. You've never met him before and of course he's going to behave for you because he wants to impress you. Even if he is who he claims to be, he could be a Norman Bates type who f*cking wakes up with a butcher knife and blood splatter on his face then looks over at your dead body and asks what happened. Just no.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE