since New Years I have been hanging out& hooking up with a dude who goes to another college about 50 miles away. We see each other whenever we are free but he has a very busy schedule with sports and travels many weekends, so it's been every few weeks. I caught feelings, he never does & said he isn't looking for more with anyone. Yet, I am the only girl he has had sex with multiple times (before he just did one nighters here and there). He promised me he wouldn't have sex with other girls while we are having sex buuuut I caught him doing sketchy behavior that may or may not be true. He has disappointed me continuously, has strung me along and fed me lines, and could possibly be hooking up with other girls. He also could be telling me the truth and that I "am the only one he is seeing, he doesn't hang out with any other girls, he has me and I'm a 10/10, etc" It's been up/down, one minute I'm done and beyond hurt bc I see him talking with other girls, he makes it "okay," then I crawl back. I'm addicted to him. I've completely fallen for this guy.
Today I met a guy at my college who is super nice and super into me as a person... Maybe he's stringing me along for sex, who knows, but he genuinely seems like a good dude. He's trying to get to know me as a person too. I really am diggin him. Yet I am sooo hung up and obsessed with this other guy who only contacts me when it's convenient for him.
What do I do? Can I see both until I reach a conclusion?