my crush is shy. one week we talk and flirt, and the next we don't...and the cycle repeats. why is this? I mean I know he likes me, but why does he keep doing this? men. are. so. complex.
Why isn't he talking to me?
What Guys Said 2
Are you sure he is shy or is this what you've deduced?
-He may like you so much that he is afraid of over-talking...that is, he doesn't want to seem desperate and remains aloof instead...kind of like a rebel.
-He may not be a big talker (like me). Just because he doesn't talk doesn't mean you are not in his thoughts.
-He may have other girls he spends time with...are you two together as boyfriend/girlfriend or dating or are you still trying to figure that out?
-He may have a job that takes up much of his time...schoolwork, volunteer work, family time and so on...
I can go on and on...the best thing is: if you want him to talk to you more often then talk to him about it. Bring it up gently, ask him why you are not communicating regularly0
everythign the guy said above
He might not be interested
Or might have persoanl issue holding him back0
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