How to handle the whole "talking phase"?
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His honesty about the other females is good. Now the ball is in your court. You can either choose to keep seeing him, or cut things off. Him not remembering what happened between the two of you means one of two things: 1) he's lying and actually does remember, or 2) he got blackout drunk the very first night you met him. I think both of those options say a lot about him and his character. Once you cross that line in a relationship, you can't go back. The fact you two got carried away doesn't mean anything in regards to your relationship. Some people wait months and still get dumped in the end, and some people give it up the first night and end up married.
If you want to fix it, talk to him. If you don't want to ignore him, then just go ahead and talk to him. If you ignore him, and he's already not talking much you might just end up completely cutting the communication between you.
Also, he is probably not ready for anything serious, since his marriage just ended less than a year ago.
TLDR: proceed with caution.1
I say treat him no better than he's treating you.0
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