I am on OK Cupid,
I am thinking about trying Match. Since it is a paid app, I figure girls will be more serious about dating, improving my chances.
I know OK Cupid is a jungle, Girls get way too many messages, and boys struggle to get attention.
I am a pretty average guy, I had a handful of conversations from OK Cupid, one date, from my 6 months of being on there.
Am I too average for online dating? Is Match or other paid sites the way to go? Is POF good?
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I met my wife on Match. I agree that the women on Match are more serious because they are paying. However, Match will show you a lot of profiles of women who are no longer paid members. You can send them mail but they won't be able to read it unless they renew their subscription. The won't even be able to see who sent it. So in that regard I think Match is a bit of a scam. I have a friend who met his girlfriend on "Coffee Meets Bagel". If I were you I would try all the free sites. Before joining Match see if there are any women you would like to meet who have been active in the past couple of weeks.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE