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Iam so sorry to hear this but as women become more open about sex and sexuality its become very apparent over the last 30 years with the advent of much better contraception and equality. Women rightly so did Manx better sex and quality sex too. Their needs and desires are now understood and catered for just look at the multimillion Dollar sex industry mostly guided towards women's sexual satisfaction.
If men don't buck up and pull our finger out ( no pun intended ) then we could become even more emasculated.
In your situation its coming down to some tough choices. An unsatisfying love love but a potential life partner who has a decreasing labido and sounds like a not very caring or understanding lover.
Or taking a risk and striving out to see if you can find a man who will share your desire in the bedroom. My feelings are that the core of a woman and a happy one is to know that she's desired , lusted after she is a sexual animal and needs to be shown how much she's wanted. To give oral sex but not receive it is selfish at the least but for a woman it feels much deeper than that. She feels even less desirable as though sexually she not good enough. Men are so bad at making this happen to a woman with out even knowing we are doing it.
Usually I would recommend you sitting him down and trying to communicate the shortfalls in your relationship but on this occasion I feel he is to set in his ways and is highly unlikely to change.
The lack of desire or dislike of giving Oral to you will never change now. It's an upbringing issue that is deep routed in his sexual Psyche. This is awful for a woman as it makes her feel unclean inadequate. Her primary sexual core being almost rejected is so upsetting. When giving a woman oral pleasure as a man you are paying her homage admiring her inner most beauty , the core of her sexuality is being missed and admired in the most intimately way possible it a kiss so as a woman can give life to a man she can draw him in too. Kissing and caressing him with her other more intimate clips of love. Legs open with passion and desire as he feeds from your uppermost longing to be almost worshipped.
To give this to a woman is what should make a man feel whole and masculine. Its not the woman's fault there is something missing within the man.
I hope you find happiness but I fear it will be limited with your current man.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE