How to know if you're a lesbian/bi?
What Guys Said 3
I have actually seen your situation before. Someone I know very, very well (we have been sleeping together for 19 years) didn't have boyfriend in high school or even college. She saw the attention the other girls got, but felt left out. One day, a lesbian seduced her, and she went along with it.
As it turns out, she is most definitely not a lesbian. She is, however slightly bisexual, in that she does find some women sexually attractive. She has no desire to have a primary relationship with a woman, but she might again go along with being sexually active with one.
Whether this applies to you or not, only you can decide. If you haven't had a relationship with a guy, then I give it a high chance that this is like you.
You should know that there is a difference between lesbians and bisexual women. Lesbians put the value on the relationship, bisexual women have their relationship with their man and put the value on the sex with the woman.1
Sounds like your a lesbian or bi but leaning more toward women. Maybe talk to your crushes. But if you feel like that toward a woman it sounds at least bi1
If dicks gross you out, there's something wrong with you. I'm not saying there's something wrong because you're a lesbian: that part is fine. But there's something wrong with you because pussies don't gross out heterosexual women, and penises don't gross out heterosexual men. People see all of that as something natural, even when it is unappealing sexually.0
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