I'm 21. I used to really want a meaningful relationship and to have a "one and only" but I guess I met the wrong dude.. He used me and ever since, I don't want a relationship at all. I want to sleep around (safely and not with just anyone... I mean just have sex without any other relationship). I don't want someone to get to know me or for me to get to know another. I need to focus on myself but I still am very promiscuous.
I've been having sex with one guy for the last 2 months, every few weeks. We live 45 min apart. I met another guy a few days ago at my college and he's just realllllyyyyy into me. I like him too... I can get down with his personality. But I think he's really falling for me. He told me he hasn't felt so right with someone before, he gets me coffee each day, doesn't pressure me for sex, wants to get to know me... And it's freaking me out. The past 2 months I've gotten used to being fucked and then thrown. I have fully fallen for the guy I'm having sex with only for him to reject it. We still have sex but I need to pretend I don't have feelings for him, even tho I do. Now, I met this new dude. We've made out and kissed a lot, and he wants to spend all day with me.
is it wrong to not tell him about my sex bud and vicsa versa? (However you spell it lol)
Most Helpful Guy
You lost love, I get it. But instead of fixing it, you broke it more and more. You can be called a whore, a bitch, a slut, or anything related to it and judging by your actions it's true... but I will not... because you've fallen so low that any normal person will simply feel sad for you and not judge at all. There's nothing to judge...
I advice you to stop treating yourself this way... You can still change this...
I really feel sorry for you. Because I see what was once an amazing girl... just met some bad people... and no one to help her.
I pray for you. I will really do.
Please take care of yourself and good luck.
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Most Helpful Girl
I don't know about them caring about being exclusive but I know any guy will freak if he finds out your having sex with another guy. The way a guy once explained it to me was that no guy wants to dip his laddle into a soup pot where some other guy had his laddle. I think laddle means penis lol1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE