I want her to be a part of my life, and I want to show her this, I don't want to suffocate her though, but I would love to spend like 5 hour dates just talking maybe 2-3 times a week. Leading into finding ways to spend more time together than apart (is what I figure the point of a healthy relationship is).
I don't know how to convey this to her, and I want her to want to do this for me. (Especially when it is just starting). I don't know what the solution is.