- Yes, I wish I could have an arranged marriage.
- No thanks. I like looking for myself.
Most Helpful Guy
Arrange marriage isn't bad and I don't understand how people don't want to marry that way. I mean you can still fall in love and marry that person with arrange marriage. People see it as a force but if my family finds a girl for me I would sit and talk with her about marriage seriously. If I find a girl I'll talk to her parents seriously so but ways its the same things but some people don't want to take responsibility and just fool around with whoever they "love". Then they make the excuse of not wanting arrange
For me I will definetly arrange family relationships with the girl I like and rather than fooling around I would want to know her family, let her know my family and most important of all let the families know each other so that they can see that our relationship is serious and we respect them in helping us build this relationship into a marriage.
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Most Helpful Girl
Arranged marriage is different to forced marriage and not many people get that. I had the choice of arranged marriage, but although all the guys chosen were definitely great on paper and a good decision for future stability etc... I didn't click with any, some i became friends with that's it. If i had clicked with one, I would have accepted it.
In a good arranged marriage, not forced marriage, you will have time to get to know each other before committing the rest of your life and having kids, so the romance and feelings will be there.