I've met this guy, he's tall, cute, and all my common friends tell me he's literally the nicest person they've ever met. He's very caring and SO respectful towards woman, has a personality which is very deep (he kind of lives in his own world). He's very different, but still isn't strange. I've always had a thing for bad guys, those who give you the thrill and then are probably jerks.
I'm kind of already answering my question by writing this but I'm actually SCARED I won't get to like him just because I'm attracted to something "worse". This sounds stupid, is it? I'm going to just wait, but really hope things work out this time!
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I've been told that I'm one of those guys by friends and females alike... and it really doesn't feel good to be "like a brother" all the time... no no no. Lets go deeper here.
EVERYYYTHING in social media, Disney, commercials, Entertainment, list goes on, tells Everyone that you should be like this or that which doesn't leave much room for the others. Yes, I'm blaming Hollywood and "the people at the top of the pyramid." It Idolizes that which isn't important. So I'm actually not surprised that someone can feel the way you say you do. These barbie like women are literally taught that thier beauty is all they have to offer (atleast first). Guys are displayed being the dicks that most of my guy friends are. Now we have to look either rich or have a great "swag", otherwise we're scum. The women are stuck between what they actually want "A nice guy" & what is deemed socially acceptable "The bad boy." Not saying a bad boy can't turn good and vice versa, but being aware of the differences makes the difference. Sorry about the goose chase;/ To answer your question. Don't be afraid of someone different;) and every Yin has a Yang~