I guess that I'm scared of that level of commitment, that, and I really love the town that I'm living in (same goes for him as well, he doesn't want to leave the town he lives in), but I don't want to make him wait until I'm ready. I have considered ending our relationship because of it, too, but I don't know if I could, because that would hurt him deeply.
I suppose my question could be two, do you think I should move in with him, should I make him wait, or should I just end it to make it easier for the both of us?
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I wouldn't move, because I can tell you don't want to, you are more worry about not hurting him, but he doesn't move either and that it's a sign that he is as scare as you are. Commitments are really difficult. Everything is perfect the way it is because you only see each other every now and then, so it's like a honeymoon.