- no, this is weird and you are probably racist (would argue against it)
- i get what you try to say, but you are still wrong about interracial dating
- never had that feeling
- i agree completely
Most Helpful Girl
I am currently dating a guy who's not white, so a different race.
His family seems cool with my being white. My family, mother specifically, doesn't seem to feel the same. Saying that she can't believe that I'd even think of dating someone who's not Catholic, or asking if I'm not bothered by the fact that potential children in the future won't be blonde haired, blue-eyed. (He's Asian.)
I say whatever; I'm the one in the relationship, not my family. I'm not going to choose who I marry/have kids with based off of what kind of children I hope to have with him. As long as they're happy and healthy, that's what matters most, in addition to my getting along with the guy in question, of course.
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't refuse to date someone simply because of race. That being said, my preferences still apply and physical attraction is still important to me (along with emotional attraction, naturally).
While my type tends to fall upon my own race more, I wouldn't exclude people outside of my race from being my type.
I would suggest, in your case, that you date the girl for the girl she is. Rather, worry about the family later. You are dating her-- not her family.
That being said, she may throw in rejection later on if she decides to pick family over you... But what if her family isn't like that? What if she was your life's best opportunity?
The point is, the avoid regrets and live life to the fullest, I would go after the girl.