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You said " im just upset and I dont want to bring it up."
I urge you to bring this up with him. Keeping things like this bottled up inside is a recipe for disaster (for you and the relationship).
Part of being in a relationship with someone is being able to be honest and open, being able to let the other person know how you really feel and not being afraid to express how you feel.
Communication is SO important in a relationship. If there isn't an open line of communication (completely open) between the two of you, one of you (or both) will end up upset, bitter, jealous, resentful, etc. and the relationship will suffer because of it.
Why are you afraid to tell your boyfriend that you really want to be able to spend time with him without the pressure of other deadlines or commitments?
I think your asking for something very reasonable... you're not asking him to quit his job or stop doing things with friends or for other people, you're simply wanting to have time together to relax and not have those other pressures, once in a while. Not every single day.
Let him know! He won't get upset with you! If he does, he's probably not the right guy to be with anyway. But he probably won't get upset with you.
He shouldn't, at least.
Be honest and open, let him know what you want so he can give it to you!
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