Do guys prefer bitches?

I am characteristically a nice girl. People classify me as such, I've always thought about others feelings but recently I've noticed that it seems to be a hindrance rather than a great quality. I've noticed that my friends who are (self-proclaimed) bitches are the ones who are getting everything they want out of their relationships. I am dating a good guy but lately I've been feeling like I'm too nice. Is it true that men really do prefer more aggressive women? I feel like nice girls are losing.

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  • Nope. Chances are is that your simply not communicating with him. Whether thats because your afraid of being imposing or hurting his feelings, their is a difference between nice and nice to the point of being easily ignored. You need to communicate. I know of only one person who likes "bitches" and he is a miserable asshole with so many failed relationships its really kind of sad (well until he starts acting like an asshole then you don't really feel so bad). So no I don't think men like "bitches" unless their looking for a quick lay. What is missing from your relationship?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I know and I agree with you. Sometimes a good looking hot girl with nice and kind personality could lose to an ugly bitch!
    I've seen too many examples. Sigh.

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What Guys Said 35

  • There is a theoretical "too nice" point, but I doubt you're there. It sounds like the biggest issue you have is confidence and open communication. My guest is your "bitchy" friends are much more open to outright stating exactly what it is they want, so the guys don't have to guess.

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  • Just because a woman is aggressive doesn't mean she is a bitch.
    do guys prefer bitches? of course not.
    do guys prefer women that are at least a bit more aggressive? yes
    women that just sit around and wait for the guy to do everything are frustrating. women say how they want to be treated like equals then bitch when the guy doesn't do everything. Make up y'alls mind.

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  • You might also be shy I'm guessing? This probably has more to do with it than "nice girl" or "bitches". "Bitches" tend to be more outgoing which will likely be why they're getting the guys, not because they're a bitch lol. I personally want a girl like you.

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  • It's always so refreshing to see that the "Nice Guy Syndrome" is not exclusive to males.

    It's even funnier when they're in an established relationship but they're second-guessing themselves instead of telling based on how they perceive their partner; but empathy clearly takes too much effort.

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  • Nope. Men want to avoid women like that. I'm talking about men here. Real men not the little sissies with cocks you see around these days. I hate the arrogant, huffy, entitled types. They do my head in. I prefer a girl who is genuinely nice and pleasant. Not a sap or a walkover though. The guys that like bitches are usually the weak ones who can't take care of themselves

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  • Yeah, I like my bitches mean. Bad girls are just compatible with me.

    Like, if I stopped in the middle of the highway and did a rolling burnout with you in the car, you'd probably freak out and never speak to me again. A bad bitch would laugh and record it for Instagram. Then we'd have sex in a truck stop.

    'Nice girls' are also cute, but only if they're secretly dirty little whores. Truly nice girls are boring.

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  • I don't really want a girl who's nice to me. I find it hot when a girl is mean. The other thing is I don't like it when girl's are worried about my feelings to the point where they're not honest.
    I like it when a girl doesn't care about my feelings...
    I find it sweet when a girl I like does a nice thing for me, but it's not necessarily attractive. I'm more attracted to girls who care more about themselves.

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  • Noooo, not at all!
    A nice girl is the only girl that has a remote chance with me, i want someone genuine who is herself and who doesn't have such a horrible attitude.

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  • Most men who would prefer bitches, only prefer them in bed, not in any real relationships.

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  • i like the girl right in between nice and bitch. i want best of both worlds.

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What Girls Said 5

  • I feel like most guys I've met prefer neutral girls. As in can be aggressive/cold, more so to others; and then nice/sweet/cute/ect when they're alone, or with a few close friends. I could only assume because it makes them feel more important. I wouldn't have a change in personality too quickly though, as it could scare your boyfriend. A playful aggressiveness, maybe? Good luck.

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  • I don't think guys necessarily like bitches, I just think they like someone who is a little sassy or feisty. For some reason it ignites their sexual drive, and well, that's pretty much it.

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  • People like other people with an interesting personality. Being "nice" is often perceived as boring not only to many girls but also many guys. Boring people finish last.

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  • Yeah. And lots if girls like bad guys too. But I have no idea why.

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  • I don't prefer assholes. I dont want to be broken.

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