Most Helpful Guy
No in my opinion you did exactly as you should have. You have made the boundry line more clear by your action. Like yeah !! You did just meet the guy so a kiss on the lips at this stage is a rush to say the least , his presumptiousness at this point in time. If you thought he was the kind of mannered guy you could like more go have the dinner it would maybe help ease some of the nerves and anxiety you may be feeling. If couldnt hurt dudes confidence any , he did get told no tho the invite , reconsidering your answer would help to erase that feeling.
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Most Helpful Girl
You should have accepted the lunch. If I were you, I'd tell him that I was stupid to decline the lunch and I'd make him another offer.