Girls who wouldn't mind dating 30+ year olds, would you give either of these dudes a chance?

Let's say you are single and if you won't date a 30+ year old, just pretend you will for just this question

they both have good looks and good decent personalities, would you date either of these two guys?

A. A dude at 30 or older who is still a virgin by choice

B. a dude at 30 or older who has slept with 10 or more women
  • I would date guy A but not guy B
    Vote A
  • I would date guy B but not guy A
    Vote B
  • I would give either of them a chance
    Vote C
  • I wouldn't date either of them
    Vote D
  • I'm a guy and wanna see results
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  • Option A? Perhaps? He would need to understand that I'm not a virgin lol and if he can accept that that will be cool. I would be concerned if his waiting till marriage or just want to give himself to someone who he thinks deserve him (sexually).

    I don't have an issue with Option B, but him having sex with 10 or more people sounds daunting.. Like that thought would always linger in the back of my head, and I would feel like if I was in a relationship with him, would I measure up to his sexual standards?

    I think option A ^^*

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  • women don't obsess over number of sexual partners like men do, it's just odd and creepy why ould you care? As long as the person is 100% std free it makes no difference. Someone could have had safe sex with 20 people and have never had an std, another person could have had unprotected sex just once and could have several stds.

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    • "women don't obsess over number of sexual partners like men do"

      i disagree lol you should see some of the girls talk on this site about this

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    • You need to realise that it is culturally ingrained ever since the buying and selling of young girls was common, the obsession with female virginity started as an obsession with how much money you could get for your daughter. Women are still fetishized for being virgins and the myth that women have some magical seal that needs to be broken like some sort of packaged food item is still commonly believed. Even though a woman's hymen is with her for life and doesn't magically disappear, they are not "supposed" to break or tear, and even if they do they heal within 48 hours. Men are not viewed as products with a magical seal like a juice box, and society is pretty forgiving to any man who wants to run around fucking anything that moves.

  • Either or neither. Their sexual past doesn't mean anything to me (barring the obvious need-to-knows like diseases or kids) it's who they are that matter. If they're decent blokes who I find attractive then either. If they're total asshats then neither. Lol!

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  • I would rather take guy A over B anytime! Although at this age I'm not sure if I would go over 30 but hey, never say never I guess lol

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  • I prefer A. Just like guys, woman don't want a guy that's been around the block a lot. That comes across as dirty to me and shows me he lacks the kind of morals that I have. I knew a guy who was a virgin at my work and he was so sexy to me. Realistically though as long as his number isn't crazy and he isn't the type to just have one nighters I'm good with that.

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  • Those things wouldn't make me automatically say no to him. I would be tepid to date someone who had slept with many women. But 10 isn't crazy, it's just not how I go about sleeping with people. And when it comes to being a virgin, I wouldn't count him out either, if that was his choice, his choice.

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  • I like older men, I get along with them better. I'm dating a 31 y/o

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  • I wouldn't date a 30 year old right now, I think I'm probably too young for that buuuut hypothetically i would give either of those guys a chance. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing and 10 people isn't that many, so either are fine 😊

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    • What if guy B had slept with more than 20 girls?

    • I'd probably be doubting his sincerity toward me a little, wonder if he really wanted a relationship with me or just sex, but I'll probably still give him a chance if he's a nice guy and I like him.

  • I'd prefer to date guy A a chance over guy B, but it really depends on why he's remained a virgin till now.

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    • maybe He's just waiting for the right girl to give it to?

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    • ... i mean i don't think i'd really think that much about it really. If i felt like 'the one' to her, i'd think i'd feel pretty special. maybe im just too optimistic i dunno :P

    • ah yeah okay, guess it's a classic case of whether you see the glass half empty or half full. When people do things that are really nice or thoughtful for me, it'll usually make me think I'm not fully deserving of it, then start wondering what I could possibly do to return the gratitude. Or I guess in the case of being deemed 'the one', what I could possibly due to live up to that title. :P

  • I would date guy A, I am a virgin by choice and I won't mind goin that direction in terms of relationship

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  • I'd give both of them the same chance and see which of them will attract me more in terms of personality and physically of course.

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What Guys Said 4

  • I don't know any girls that want to date a one year old let alone 30 of them.

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  • errr *sees comments*
    3 years and 5 months and not have 4 more partners D;

    Life is hardddd

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  • I hope they do... lool

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  • They would, in reality, go for neither blokes

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    • Why would you say so?

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    • So what do they say is wrong with these two guys that they wouldn't date them?

    • The virgin would be classified as needy and the one with over 10 bedposts would be classified as a slut

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