Help flirting in text messages? Girls' and Guys' perspectives please

OK I’m texting this guy and I really like him and we have meet up a couple of times, but I find it really hard to flirt in texts but I want to keep him keen because I’m not going to see him for the next few weeks :- ( and want to see him again hence wanting to keep him keen lol any advice?

Girls what would you do/say? Guys what do you like to read in a flirty text?


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  • use words like babe, cutie, sexy, hottie, whatever...ex:

    you "hey cutie how was your day"

    him "cutie huh? lol it was good, you"

    you "mine was good, but would have been better if I saw youuuu :):)"

    him "maybe we should meet up ;)"

    you "im busy right now, but I'm def down for meetin up with you, can you in like an hour or so?"

    him "sure, where you wanna meet"

    you "wherever you wanna baaaaaabe"

    him "alright sexy well call me when ur ready and we'll figure it out"

    lol not sure if it'll go that way but just kinda go all out with him, expand your words so he can really "feel" what ur saying...hense the "youuuuuu" "baaaaaaaaabe" so its like the flirtatious kinda talk lol...i don't know hope this helps


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What Guys Said 2

  • Use flirty nick names. Such as 'sexy' or 'cutie.'

    And use suggestive references!

  • We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation. ~Lily Tomlin


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