And how did it go? A success or not?
How did you feel like when you asked a someone out for the first time?
What Girls Said 18
I was really nervous and it took me about 3 or 4 weeks to finally take the plunge and ask him out. His exact answer was "Why would I go out with you? You're ugly and too tall." The first of many failures for me when approaching guys.
It was a blow to my self esteem for sure, but recently I learned that he's bat shit crazy and went to rehab twice for drug addiction so I dodged a bullet there.3
How did it feel? I was nervous... lol! No not a success. Second time meh... not nervous but no success! When someone ask me to be their friends with benefits I assume they were joking! And same goes with the time a i got pity asked to homecoming! haha The point is no more boys! No more! I just want be happy!2
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he had a girlfriend and I was friendzoned for the very first time :D3
I asked him to a concert. He agreed and I was so excited. It felt great because I really liked him and was excited to see a band I know he'd like with him. A week later, he said he couldn't make it because his band was playing a show of their own. I was bummed BUT it got me another date with him because he felt bad that he couldn't make it and wanted to still see me and take me out.0
I didn't ask anyone out, but I told someone I liked them and it was awkwadly bad. Luckily it ended up that way because he's a fuckboy and now I heard he does drugs and stuff.3
It felt great, it was a huge success.
We ended up dating for a year, before we peacefully broke up.2
I was shaking, my knees buckled, my heart was beating so fast and hard i could hear it, sweating so much, i felt my chest getting tight and couldn't breathe, over analyzing my thinking, and no it didn't work out. So, I've never been on a date. I asked out 2 different guys and both said no.0
I did and it works well 🙏🏼0
It was a Success and then i discovered that he wasn't what i thought he was and quit right there.1
I have never asked someone out but if i do it i hope it will be successful :)0
very nervous but excited at the same time hmmmm young love0
Eh I thought he liked me cuz we flirted a lot but then he ended up liking guys I guess0
I knew he liked me already so it was pretty easy!0
I was nervous and did get rejected, which was a bummer, but I recovered. Haha.0
What Guys Said 19
I have always been single and I have never asked a woman out!!. I never will!!.3
scared to death doesn't express what i felt the first time i asked someone out. i had very low self esteem back then. now i seem to not care what others think about me1
First time asking someone out?
I got "I would ___, but I am 10 years older than you. Sorry "2
Not been there yet brah!2
VERY Nervous that she will say no.
It went very well. It was a success.
We had dinner just the two of us and went to shoot pool with friends where we started to cuddle. And I kissed her good night.0
Nervous would be the word I'd use excitedly nervous lol and yes it did go well lol she said yes and we were together for quite a while before we both ended things.0
Rejected. It didn't change any other hundreds of time I approached a girl.2
I can't even remember. Too long ago0
It was a success but it wasn't exactly normal. We were already really close and then we had our first kiss and I asked am I your boyfriend now and she said yes after a kiss like that.0
she rejected me politely but it doesn't matter there is always someone out there for everyone.1
Success, and i didn't feel anything, i was just benign0
Butterflies :D Well, it went just fine. She agreed and from the very first date we were in a relationship.0
I felt... nothing. Seemed almost fluid.0
I asked her to homecoming and we went0