I've been wondering about this. I am a simple girl who doesn't wear make-up and wear casual clothes mainly jeans but still feminine. Lookwise, I am NOT hot but more on the cute side as a I look way younger than my age. Guys approached whom I dont know at all or friends of friends and the sex topic comes first all the time. I don't get it at all. When you meet me, I'd say I'm not like my friends who are outgoing and into dating. I am a shy type but I can hold a conversation with guys. I dont think that I flirt very well.
What could be the reason guys treats me like this? There is even one who straight up ask me about sex when we were not even close. I dont think I have an appeal to give them such idea.
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe becuas EOF the "look younger than my age"
Younger than 18-24 is a minor..
Most Helpful Girl
Usually, sex is always on the back of a man's head. The difference between good guys and bad guys is that they don't put sex in the same order and their intentions are different. The good guy wants sex IN a relationship and the bad guy wants it quickly without any relationship.
So, the first step is to work on your confidence (it's not only the look. confidence goes a long way). Also, add a little something to your style that will say: ''i'm there'' ex: if you like jeans, put some heels with it to add a little something. If you don't want to have the cute girl look, go for a feminine more classy look.
Secondly, be aware of your body language. Sometimes, men can easily decode that. Sometimes, even the look on your face can tell a lot without you noticing it.
Last but not least, be aware of your entourage. Did you talked to a so called friend who throw your personal experiences under the bus? does people know your businesss? OR maybe it's the wrong crowd (concerning friends friend).
Hope it helps.