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Non virgin guys sre judged for asking higher standards drom the girl than from themselves0
Non virgin guys sre judged for asking higher standards drom the girl than from themselves
Jus date who you are attracted to. Go be with a non virgin hunk if that's what you like, who care what other people think.
Oh they are judged lol
Because realistically, we've loosened up and continue to push some of the boundaries of what is acceptable behavior for women, but there's been very little shifting in what's acceptable for men. So men continue to be shamed for the same things they always were, and aren't allowed to complain about it (which is why they DO complain so much online)
Honestly I think guys are getting accused for having any preference. Heck, I've been badmouthed for not wanting old or fat people.
Thing is, I happen to like older people. They're interesting. And people with extra weight are often really sweet if you get to know them, that doesn't mean I want to date every overweight woman old enough to be my mom.
But if I say I want someone attractive, then well, I'm an asshole that only cares about looks. Fun life.
"Attractive to me" seems to be working for now though. Since we're not allowed to say that this or that type is generally more attractive.
As many other things, because it's not as equal as people think.
1. Not many virgin women express they want non virgin men. In fact, a lot more express they want a virgin man. So, it's a lot less common than a non virgin guy wanting a virgin woman.
2. If there are virgin women who want non virgin men, they don't typically insult virgin men for not meeting their criteria. When non virgin men demand or want virgin women, they usually say it's because the more partners someone has the more likely they are to cheat etc. Etc. And some go as far to call them whores and sluts for not being virgins, and then it's like "then what are you?"
3. To want a non virgin when you're a virgin is typically because you want someone to help you learn. To want a virgin when you're not, it's typically because you just have a fetish or scream insecurity because you can't handle not being the first.
4. Put it this way, one is more desired while the other isn't. Sad, but true. If a rich person preferred to date poor people, he/she wouldn't be called a hypocrite. They might call him/her stupid, but that's the extent of it. If a poor person preferred to date rich people (especially a poor woman only wanting to date rich men) she'd be called all types of names: whore, golddigger, hypocrite, manipulator, etc.
The way people make it seem is that when you have more desirable qualities, you can freely choose from your "equals" and even a bit higher, and the "lowers".
When you have less desirable qualities, you will get shit for wanting someone with more desirable qualities, male or female.
Because a non virgin guy demanding that he'll only get with a virgin, despite him having been around the block and back beforehand, enforces the double standards in which a female's value is placed solely on her sexuality. Not only that but that if she engages in activities that satisfies her libido before the future-husband even came into the picture, she's worthless?
Because virgin has become a fetish for men who want someone innocent and vulnerable.
Because when a girl wants a non virgin for her first time it's because he can help make it less painful. Virgin guys don't know how to work a vagina.
Because wanting a Virgin makes people think your only goal is to deflower her. But wanting a non virgin guy translates to you wanting someone experienced.
Sex is not rocket science but people think that experience or the lack thereof necessarily influences performance. That's BS.
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