I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months. Everything was great until a couple of weekends ago when I brought up putting a label on what we were (an official relationship). He said the R word scared him. That same day he had asked me to go meet his family the next day. Well the following morning he was acting weird. When I asked what was wrong he kept saying nothing, then, I asked again and he said do you really want to meet my parents? I said that's up to you, I don't have to if its to soon. He nodded his head yes. I turned my head and began to cry (it was an emotional time of month for me). When he came over to hug me he realized I was crying and stormed off and said "I always f*** up everything good in my life". I left not long after that crying still and came home. On my way home he text and asked me to text when I made it home. We text some that day but that week he pulled back. The following Saturday I talked to him on the phone and he said he "needed time". Long story short I didn't talk to him until today when I text him and ask if he was okay. He said "Im okay. Thanks. Just really busy. His business has picked up. I hope your well. Sorry for everything." I text back and said I was glad to hear from him and asked if he needed more time and I felt like everything happened so fast. No response yet and it's been two hours. Should I move on? Or wait and give him time? I feel like he doesn't want it to end but I'm afraid I will come across as pushy or needy. This seems to be a pattern in my life. I date a guy a few months and then once it gets serious they pull away or disappear. He promised he wouldn't do this and told me not to worry when I told him about my dating experiences. I don't know what to do :(
Should I give him the "time" he asked for or move on? How long do I wait?
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