Okay so a girl from my class I've always thought very cute talked some today in class and afterwards I talked with her one on one walking down the hall, she was super friendly and social, she kept the conversation going and we ended up talking for like 17-20 minutes it was incredible there was good rapport etc, we literally stood in the cafeteria talking and laughing and it wasn't awkward at all or slow paced and it was the first time we'd talked. but I don't know what I was thinking when I asked for her number right at the end before we parted ways. now she was hesitant, I think genuinely, not sparing feelings, she kinda was like 'Ummm I mean, we just talked for the first time, I don't really know you' to which I replied 'hey that's fine I get no biggie, but is it alright if I talk to you again' I honestly didn't quite catch what she said as my brain was still processing what it had just done haha. Anyway I know it was too soon to ask obviously but we really had good rapport and she was eager to keep the conversation going could just be friendly yes but still, anyway girls did I blow any chance I might have had with her?
And if I didn't would a girl not give a number to a guy she thought cute like that? I mean is there still a chance she may like me etc? Be honest and please give opinions.
- You did NOT blow it, she's just being careful it sounds like it's going well just keep talking, I don't think it'll weird her out really.72%(23)66%(29)Vote50%(6)
- I think that kinda blew it for you sorry3%(1)7%(3)Vote17%(2)
- I just don't think she's interested from how it sounds not giving her number..25%(8)27%(12)Vote33%(4)
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. You didn't blow it. ;) Just trust me.2
Most Helpful Guy
She might just be caught off-guard with how quickly you move. Like she said, she just met you today and probably still confused about how she felt toward you. I don't think you blow it, there still a chance.
Don't ask "is it alright if I talk to you again?" it sound so desperate man. Have confident and assumed you WILL talk to her again, if you so desire. You don't need her permission.
When she said that she don't really know you, you should of replied something along the line of "that why i wanted your number, so we can talk and get to know each other *smile* " Keep the conversation light and fun, always. Don't make it awkward.
Do not ask for her number again, but still keep talking to her if you enjoy the conversation with her. Never get reject twice by the same person. She will have to initiate and give you her number by herself from now on.
On a last note, it never too soon to ask for someone number my friend. Just do it. If the girl refuse/not interested in you, then you move on and waste no time.0