I broke up with my boyfriend and I deleted his facebook and blocked his number. Actually i am pretending that i never met him and is working but my friend told me that is immature and that i am just avoiding all the problem.
I feel that maybe it will be better if i act like i never met him but now i feel bad.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it's automatically immature. It depends on a lot of things: why you broke up with him, how long you were together, whether you have mutual friends/how often you might see him unintentionally, etc. Breakups are hard, especially if you've been with the person for a while. Even if there was a really good reason for breaking up, and even if the relationship was unhealthy, it can be natural to see an ex as a source of comfort and familiarity. That can lead to mixed signals and lingering feelings, both of which just draw out a problematic relationship. I don't think there's anything wrong with ripping off the bandage, so to speak, and removing someone from your life entirely, at least for as long as it takes for the wounded relationship to heal.
That all being said, if your boyfriend is someone you'll have to interact with in the future, it would be immature to act like you never met him. A big part of maturity is learning how to be civil with people you don't want to see.1
Most Helpful Girl
Don't play games if it's a ploy to hurt him or even to get him back but blocking him out isn't immature in itself. But what you need. To do in addition is go on and live your life, fill your mind with other things and activities and just keep moving forward. What was the reason you broke up w/him?1