A few months back she was staring, smiling, touching me etc and i was so sure she liked me and she said she's not sure if she likes me as more than a friend, and she had a boyfriend... i got annoyed with her and starting ignoring her. Now has been flirting with me again, said she missed me , she told her family about me , she shouted my name out when i came in room , she touched my back , she barged into me in corridor, walking right against me closely , she leaned against me, resting her head on my shoulder , she pulled a loose hair off my stubble , looks at me , laughs at me , smiles at me. I'm not sure if its the same story of just friends.. should i ask her again. She suddenly started ignoring me today and i think she is playing hard to get now, the reason why i haven't asked her out again is i fear she will say the same thing like im not sure if i like you more than friends, i think she might just flirt with me cos she is bored, should i ask her out again? Should she make the move now?
Most Helpful Girl
Do not ask her out again.0
Most Helpful Guy
Never expect a woman to make a move. That's not how dating works.
Men take the risk to ask the woman out and women take the risk of saying yes and everything that happens after.
The best advice I got from an older guy years ago is this: Be the train and not the cab.
This means live your life. Go out socially - with buddies or with other women. Maybe she's still not over her ex and waiting around for an "opening" can drive you crazy and make you less appealing to her overall.
When she sees you living life without her, she might magically start liking you WAY more than friends, and get over whatever is holding her back right now.