I told this girl I had previously been on a date with that I like her, but she's in a relationship. However, she had previously said she liked me and I didn't fight for her when she was deciding between the two of us (me and her ex - who she's in a relationship with again now). I feel really guilty and feel I've also mucked up our friendship, how bad is it what I did?
- Really bad50%(2)33%(3)Vote20%(1)
- Not great, but not that bad50%(2)44%(4)Vote40%(2)
- Acceptable, don't feel too guilty0%(0)23%(2)Vote40%(2)
Most Helpful Girl
It's pointless to tell a taken person you like them. The chances of that ever actually changing the person's way of thinking is next to nothing. So I'd say it was a bad move. But instead of beating yourself up about it, accept what happened and tell yourself to move on from it. With time, the friendship might go back to normal and she might not even see it as a big deal. It's likely a bigger deal to you, than to her. So stops stressing please.0
Most Helpful Guy
What the fuck? She's in a relationship (monogamous I'm assuming) and yet is going on dates with other people? I don't blame you for confessing your feelings because she sort of led you on here unless you knew beforehand of her relationship status and tried to interfere with it.0