I always read these stories of men wanting or begging to have unprotected sex with women and I NEVER experienced this. Guys always used condoms or preferred to only have oral with me to avoid pregnancy. This makes me question my desirability. Why don't guys wanna procreate with me? I feel its because I'm a darkskin black woman and they fear the kids would be ugly with me. If I were lighterskin I am quite sure I would have had a few guys want to have unprotected sex with me or prefer intercourse over blowjobs.
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Guys don't want unprotected sex to get you pregnant, they want it because it feels better.
Imagine kissing someone, and then imagine kissing someone while holding a sheet of paper up in front of your face.
The reason guys don't have unprotected sex, is because they don't want children, because the law is skewed massively to their detriment.
If a woman falls pregnant and the guy doesn't want to father the child, the baby stays, if the father wants it and the mother doesn't, it can be aborted, if the mother doesn't want an abortion she can still put up the child for adoption or drop it off at a safehaven.
If the mother wants the child, she can simply point to the guy as being the father and child support will be extracted for him for 18 years otherwise he has to go to prison.
One night stands and casual sex is very dangerous to men, because you never know if she has hidden motives to get pregnant and if she has, well then you're fucked. Men cannot legally or financially surrender their paternity, and it sounds to me like you just want to get pregnant and they just want sex, they don't want children.
Unprotected sex isn't about impregnating the woman, it's about how it feels, but guys would rather NOT pay 18 years of child support, than have one slightly better fuck.2