So I started seeing this guy and at first I didn't expect to like him much but with his persistance and getting to know him I did.. I dont know how to explain it but i felt so safe with him and i never feel like that with a guy.. He got out of a live in relationship where he had been with her for a few years he said he was open to seeing where things went, being a tradie he works early and plays sport so is busy most nights and weekends. So it was hard in the begining because I felt like he didn't like me because he would ask me last minute when I had stuff on to see me. But he would message me all day everyday and we had a few fights because i guess i was testing him without meaning to its just I've been hurt in the past.. So then he planned to get dinner a few days in advance but the day of i freaked out and didn't message him then i tried to cancel because i wasn't feeling well but I really wanted to see him so I went but I was super awkward and he's been really distant since.. I tried to tee up a chat but he was busy and said he can't i took it as he didn't care so said dont worry i have my answer then he was really nice and said he wanted to talk but because i flipped he didn't want to. It was a bit over a week and there were a few texts here and there.. I told him I missed him and he took 5 days to reply when he was drunk.. saying there was no need to miss him.. So i asked him about it a few days later and he said I should forget he exists and that he isn't a person anyone needs to be around at the moment.. Am I wasting my time?
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I say forget about him. He seems like he hasn't a clue what he wants and it's unfair of him to keep you hanging around like that. I wouldn't speak to him any more and move on.0