I dated a guy 3 years lived with him and put a lot of time money and effort into his house. Mowing the lawn, weeding the garden, paying for his cars to get fixed, spilting wood, carrying logs, laundry, grocery shopping, and cooking. He is an emotional abuser, manipulative, and narssitic. Is he going to come back to me for all I did and will he realize what he had?
Most Helpful Guy
No. He is who he is. and it's unlikely that he'll ever change. In the rare event that he does, it will be because HE wants to change - he won't change for anyone else.
This is one of the biggest and hardest lessons to learn about relationships: you cannot change other people, and should not expect them to change. You either have to accept people exactly as they are (and assume they'll be that way forever), or you need to end your relationship with them and find someone who you CAN accept as they are. In other words, you can change YOU (including who you choose to associate with), but you cannot change other people.0
Most Helpful Girl
He was with you cuz u made him feel good about him self " narssistic " the person he loved in your relationship was him.. he might come back to you but again for his own good not cuz he appreciated wut u hv done for him :)
So the question here should be " Will you accept to take him back?" :)0
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