Went on two dates with a guy. First date was great. On the second date, we got coffee and our conversation made me really uncomfortable. She said some aggressive, potentially violent, things about women. For examle, he told me several stories about exes and each one, according to him, was a "bitch," "slut," "whore," etc. I could also tell he has some anger management issues because he got really worked up during these and other parts of our conversation.
He's texted me once inviting me over to his place. I ignored that one. Now, he's texted me two weeks in a row asking if I'm free the next weekend. To be blunt, he scares and I don't want to see him again. What is the best (and safest, because he knows where I work) way to turn him down? Should I keep ignoring him? Text him to tell him I don't think we're compatiable? Make up that I've realized I'm too busy with work and don't have time for a relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
tell him you're not interested anymore, ignoring him will only make him more aggressive0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should text him and tell him that you didn't feel any chemistry and don't see it going anywhere with him. If he becomes rude or aggressive, DO NOT ENGAGE.0