my boyfriend does this a lot. i dont know if its normal or not. he texts a lot of my friends everyday and they have conversations that last days. he also snapchats other girls and he goes to lunch with them and has them over. sometimes at parties I find him with girls on top of him or sitting by him on a couch just the two of them. he likes a lot of other girls pictures on social media. he walks in the hallways with other girls too. is this okay?
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Most Helpful Guy
Ask him how he'd like it if it was reversed. He's not your boyfriend1
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like it can go both ways, if he's flirting and not making it clear to girls he's unavailable then there's a problem. But if it is getting to you (it may not have originally and may start to now) then I say just TALK to him, don't start a fight or accuse him or any bad intentions just say how it makes you feel and ask why he does it and as someone else commented, ask how he'd feel if it was reversed.
But it can be normal if he just has female friends etc. But you have a right also to say you aren't comfortable with him having girls physically all over him at parties!1