I've been on three dates with this guy. I met him through my friends coworkers party. I agreed to go on the first date not really beung attracted at all but then we hit it off so i agreed to a second date and we kissed at the end of it. And we text in between. Before the third date he said he missed me. I didn't say it back bc i just dont wanna be clingy. But everything was really great. And he also told me about his lifestyle that he's trying to get out of. he's in a gang but he can't leave otherwise they'll kill him but he still wants to be something else in life. THIS IS WHY I GAVE IT A SHOT. it really seems like he wants to change. He always tells me about his temper and how he's gotten fired bc he starts fights but he's also working on that. Well my dumbass believed it. Third date was last night. He came off as a little controlling. Id be driving and i guess his way of flirting was grabbing my neck and kinda wiggling me around. Even when we got to his place he did that a lot. And like if he wanted to kiss me he would just pull me closer but it was never gentle. Everything just felt sexually aggressive lol. He would randomly bite me while we watched tv. But my arm bit my back. Bit my neck and ears. He also licked my nose. This was before we even made out or anything. And I don't know he does a lot of neck grabbing to get me to do things. (well he did that when i was driving lol) he also called me this one name that i totally forgot. Its basically a fuckgirl or a bitch. Just someone people fuck with. I got so mad. I'm not like that. He said he was kidding and then after he asked if i was mad but i replied with "oh ya think i care haha" I'm normally sassy so i say things like that. I dont want him to think i got butthurt bc of that. But yeah I don't know
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Okay, you fucking listen to me.
Is this boy bullshitting about being in a gang and trying to get out? Because honey, that is NOT something that anyone should EVER bullshit about.
If he actually IS a marked man, and he's been seen together with you, then YOU are marked, too.
That is how gangs operate. If they suspect that he's a snitch -- or a potential snitch -- and they want to silence him, then they're damn well also gna go after whomever he's most likely to snitch TO.
That would be... you. His woman.
The BEST case scenario here is that this guy's zodiac sign is Taurus, because everything he's telling you is fucking bull.
If he is, in fact, telling the truth about this whole gang thing, then, DO NOT LET HIM KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE, and stay the fuck away. If he's actually not lying about this, then, YOUR life will quite literally depend on it, too.3
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